For this project, we're decided to choose MARRIAGE as our scope research...Emm why we chosed this title??? One of the reason is this title is so interesting to discuss certainly.(^_^)..In addition, Malaysia consists of various kind of races and our Prime Minister with his trade mark,'ONE MALAYSIA' tends to ensure malaysian are getting along and never feel differ even we're from different races, religion and etc. Based on that, we're decided to focus on marriage as this kind of subject is yet popular among all the races..So, we're really hope all of you can get some knowledges here and can share it also with others...perhaps!Enjoy the facts*_*!!!
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Welcome TO OUR Blog*_*
For this project, we're decided to choose MARRIAGE as our scope research...Emm why we chosed this title??? One of the reason is this title is so interesting to discuss certainly.(^_^)..In addition, Malaysia consists of various kind of races and our Prime Minister with his trade mark,'ONE MALAYSIA' tends to ensure malaysian are getting along and never feel differ even we're from different races, religion and etc. Based on that, we're decided to focus on marriage as this kind of subject is yet popular among all the races..So, we're really hope all of you can get some knowledges here and can share it also with others...perhaps!Enjoy the facts*_*!!!
Friday, April 9, 2010
INTRODUCTION
Statistics:
Our study is mainly on Malay, Chinese and Indian only as it represents the largest ethnic groups in Malaysia. Our main interest is on the wedding ceremony and customs on all the three main races in Malaysia. Besides, we also discussed a little on Orang Asli, Ethnic Sabah and Ethnic Sarawak wedding ceremony. We think that wedding is a beautiful event, attended by many guests, family members and friends. It is also an event that can strengthen up relationship of the family members. Before we discuss further on our study, let us see the some important word glossary we often use in our study.
Glossary:
Wedding : The act or ceremony of marrying; marriage; nuptials.
Marriage : The social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies, etc.
All wedding are different of course, but nevertheless they also have many things in common. Besides studying on the wedding ceremony and customs, we also note down some of the important wedding taboos on all ethnic wedding ceremonies. Next, let's see what is the objective of our study?
Objective:
To understand, learn and have better understanding on the wedding history, ceremonies, customs and taboos on various ethnics in Malaysia (Malay, Chinese and Indian).
Every ethnic has their own unique in having their wedding ceremony. All the customs followed in the wedding ceremony was a great and valuable heritage and it should be passed down from generation to generation. The detailed of the wedding ceremony of each ethnic will be discussed below.
Thursday, April 8, 2010
MALAY WEDDING
- Merisik (Visit and Observe)
- Meminang (Propose)
- Bertunang (Engagement)
- Adat Berinai (Wearing Henna)
- Wedding Ceremony
Here, we will expose one by one of this unique customs that are still practice by Malay's people nowadays....
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
MALAY WEDDING:Merisik (Visit and Observe)
This custom also call 'Meninjau' or 'Menengok' means observe or see. Its aimis to ensure that the girl is still single. This is important because in Islam, Muslim are not allowed to propose other's people fiancee. Therefore, it also can help the men to look foward with his future wife background which are related with domestic skill, culture, character, personality and importantly the similar belief in Islam. Commonly, this custom is done by his relatives like mother or uncle.
- That woman is not someone's fiancee.
- That woman is not someone's wife.
- That woman is not in 'iddah'.
- That woman is not a person who 'haram' to marry for certain time, such as have the blood relation with wife or women who 'haram' to marry forever like her 'mahram'.
Sometimes, the men representative will give a ring that call im Malay 'Cincin Belah Rotan' and if she accepts, they will plan the date for next custom that is 'Peminangan'. But nowadays, the custom of 'Merisik' is seldom to be done because that couple already know each other, so they will proceed with 'Perminangan' to save the cost and time.
To know what are 'Peminangan' we continue it for next post.....see you!!
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
MALAY WEDDING: Meminang (Propose)
Monday, April 5, 2010
MALAY WEDDING: Bertunang (Engagement)
Saturday, April 3, 2010
MALAY WEDDING: Adat Berinai (Wearing Henna)
Berinai Curi: held tree night before the wedding day with the nearest relatives only.
Berinai Kecil: held two night before the wedding day with relatives, neighbors and friends.
Berinai Besar: held the night before or after a wedding day for the special guest from the bride or groom invitation.
After the ceremony of 'Berinai' done, groom will not be spent at bride home, but will return to his home or if these groups come from far, the groom will spend the night at 'Penanggak' house, which mean houses close to the bride's house.
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